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‘Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.’ Rumi …

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The Love Series

We are often looking for love outside of ourselves, yet that is not where it is…

Love is that ever present feeling that we wonder about, in fact we may even question it. The real feeling of love is something different to what we may think and it’s hard to define because we all understand love in a different way.

Most of the time when we talk about love we link it to our partnerships, our children and our families. Love is more; Love is the all encompassing you. It is what you show the world. The better you are at this, the more love you will feel from the world.

Love is not experienced through control, or if you love me you will do this. It is experienced through the perspective of high level forgiveness energy, from neutrality, from vulnerability and from not being afraid to be hurt. There is no perfection necessary in this either, we are all human.

Often times the way we love comes from our family model – whatever structure you had modelled to you, will be the one that you go out into the world with. It is not wrong as such, it is just that sometimes the messages that we had are locked in outdated thinking about what love means. Also our love understanding may clash with other people’s methodology of what love means.